The Memoir

She turned pain into purpose—and a legacy into a lesson

Daughter of an Assassin: Turning Pain into Power

A Memoir by Rhoda Banks

A powerful true story of resilience, Daughter of an Assassin traces Rhoda Banks’ journey from witnessing a murder at age five to breaking free from the violent legacy of her father's past. Raised in chaos and marked by trauma, Rhoda’s story is one of faith, perseverance, and transformation. Through raw reflection and unwavering courage, she reclaims her voice, confronts generational pain, and rises to build a life defined not by where she came from—but by where she chose to go.


  • “I finished your book yesterday and was absolutely blown away. It was such an incredible moving story and so personal, but I found that I connected with so many of the feelings you shared. It was unbelievably moving. Anyone reading your book, regardless of their background, will find somewhere to connect with your story. More words are failing me but seriously, so very well done.”

     – Heather Sims St. Louis Community College

  • “I finished your book this evening. Sharing your story takes vulnerability and strength. You’ve overcome so many obstacles. There’s no doubt God has so much in store for you. Rhoda! It would be easy to give in and feel defeated and live an angry life, but that’s not you. I love your spirit and admire your faith. I believe it will serve each reader in a special way that God intends for them, at the moment they need it the most. I’m even more excited to be part of your book launch.”

     – Shannon Norman Executive Coach

  • “Andy Eggleston, my son is already reading my copy! You are one amazing human!”

    – Don Eggleston Author, Adjunct Instructor

  • “Sis, this book is sooo good…so inspiring, real, & raw and full of TRUTH!!!! I love it!. I feel like this needs to get some awards."

    – Shon Hunt Owner Shon Love Events, Wedding Coordinator & Speaker

  • “I just started your book and all I can say is wow…”

    - Erika Williams HR Executive & Speaker